Let's cover information about the incontinence products for men that are specifically designed for a man first. Male guards in the male incontinence pads section catch fluid that's leaking slightly or a little more than slightly. Some of these guards are excellent. The men's underwear section has products that are like regular underwear but they catch up to a moderate amount of leakage.
Other than that let's help you choose between the rest of the product categories. Cloth briefs are a long term solution that costs more at first and then saves money if you use them over time. Swim diapers are to protect against pool fecal incontinence (not urinary incontinence) and there are some good disposable swim diapers these days. Reusable underpads protect the bed excellently if you get good ones. We sell singles to try. Gloves, wipes, sprays, etc. can all be found in self care. If you have really heavy incontinence like many, try the overnight protection area as one of the first places to look. Tranquility and Prevail are great brands in that section.